Men and women are human magnets. Just as a steel magnet drawn through a pile of rubbish will pull out only the things, which have an affinity for it, so we are constantly drawing to us, establishing relations with, the things and the people that respond to our thoughts and ideals. Orison Swett Marden Ladies, I have a question for you: Do you wonder why you canâ??t find your dream man? Do you long for a soulmate, your one true love, that man who will whisk you away to your happily ever after? If you do, ask yourself this: Why havenâ??t you found him yet? And, while youâ??re flashing back on all the reasons why, consider thisâ?¦ The Universal Law of Attraction states that people are like magnets. A magnet attracts iron ore because thatâ??s what itâ??s made up of. People attract other people who are â??made upâ? of the same stuff, like hopes, desires, fears, feelings, and so on. For example, in a very basic way, when you smile at somebody, do people smile back at you? Yes, most often they do. This is the law of attraction working. When you smile people are drawn to your positive energy, it makes them feel good, and as a result they smile back which makes you feel good; like attracting like. So, do you think this law of attraction is true in your own life? Do you believe you can you really attract the positive and negative just like a magnet? The things you wantâ??like money, power, and confidence? Even the things you donâ??t wantâ??debt, conflict, or poor self image? How about loveâ?¦do you think you can use this law to attract your one true love just as surely as to attract not-so-good relationships? Letâ??s explore this a little further by thinking about how you talk to your girlfriends about men, dating, and love. When youâ??re chatting with the girls, do you hear yourself saying things like â??Iâ??m never going to find my Mr. Rightâ? or â??There must be something wrong with me,â? or â??I hate dating,â? or â??My one true love must not exist,â? or â??I donâ??t believe in soulmates.â?? If you do, do you think such negative thoughts and expressions as these have any connection with why you havenâ??t found your true love yet? Or, do you think theyâ??re totally unconnected and that at any moment your dream man is going to materialize out of thin air, whisk you off your feet, and youâ??ll live happily ever after? If you think the latter, itâ??s time for a reality check! Ask yourself this: Would *you* be attracted to a man who had such a woe-is-me attitude, low self esteem, negative outlook on life, and no dreams for his relationship future? Um, I didnâ??t think so. So why should a man be attracted to you if this is the â??man magnetâ? youâ??re casting out into the world? Skill skeptical? Still think a man is magically going to appear? Still want to buck the law of attraction? Donâ??t worry; youâ??re absolutely right: A man *will* appear. Heâ??ll likely be Mr. Wrong, ready to exploit your self-doubt, and if he doesnâ??t make your life miserable right away, heâ??ll at least keep you from finding somebody betterâ?¦for a long time to come! And, if by that time your attitude still hasnâ??t changed, the next man youâ??ll attract isnâ??t going to be Mr. Wrong, heâ??s going to be Mr. Really Wrong! You see, try to resist it as you will, when you affirm these negative messages and desires, you are calling on the law of attraction to work for you. And, dutifully, obediently, and without question, it will. The only problem is that youâ??re asking the universe to send you the *opposite* of what you truly want! Now, youâ??re in a real pickle because youâ??ve got what you asked for, but itâ??s not what you want. When you state â??I donâ??t want this or thatâ? and â??I donâ??t need such and such,â? itâ??s exactly what you attract. Then you find yourself wondering why you â??just canâ??t get a break,â? â??why everybody else is falling in love but me,â? and youâ??re left to wallow in the idea that youâ??re â??going to grow old alone.â? If this is how you feel, youâ??re not alone. Many women (and, yes, men, too) donâ??t know how to affirm what they *do* want. They only know how to define what they do *not* want. In affirming the negative, this is the very thing they attract. But, before you get mad at the law of attraction, you must realize â??itâ? doesnâ??t care one way or the other if youâ??re happy or sad, with Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong. The law works without judgment, without bias, and without any sentiment of â??I sure hope she finds her dream man this time!â? If you want to begin attracting your true love, then things are going to need to change and *you* are going to need to be the one who changes them. Change your focus to the positive, to the self affirming, and to your ideal, and your man magnetism is going to start attracting your Mr. Right (and, likely, many of them!) immediately. You might be asking yourself, â??Gee, this all sounds good, but how the heck do I actually stop focusing on a lifetime of bad dates, dead-end relationships, and deadbeat guys?â? or â??Hey, I donâ??t even know where to begin imagining who my true love or ideal man really is. How do I get started?â? Iâ??m glad you asked! Discover how to attract men by making the universal law of attraction work in your favor by answering these seven super simple questions:1. Define the type of relationship you want â??I want to meet the man of my dreams,â? isnâ??t going to cut it. Be specific (e.g., â??I want to find a husband who is passionate about his career and loves kids. He enjoys cycling and picnics in the park.â? or â??I desire to have a wild love affair with a French man who has curly black hair and brown eyes.â? or â??I would love to go on a romantic date with a man who buys me flowers and makes me laugh.â?).2. How does this man treat you? (e.g., He takes me out to dinner, buys me flowers, holds my hand, finds my jokes funny, tells me I am beautiful, pampers me and treats me like a princess, rubs my feet after a long dayâ?¦)3. How does it feel when you are with him? (e.g., I tremble when he brushes past me, my heart beats faster when I hear his name, we talk and talk for hours as if we have known each other for years, I feel safe when his strong arms are around me, it is like music to my ears when I hear his laughterâ?¦)4. What does he look like? (e.g., He has a warm smile, big muscles, blonde hair and green eyes, black hair and brown eyes, curly brown hair, tall/short, dark/fair skinned, frecklesâ?¦))5. What does he do for fun? (e.g., Work out at the gym, listen to/play music, cycle, play golf/football/tennis, eat out, go to bars/clubs, hiking, mountain climbing, reading, swimming, travelâ?¦)6. Where will you meet this man? (e.g., I meet him at an airport, sports bar, night club, on the internet, through friends, by chance, at a wedding, in the grocery/video store, library, at the beach, gym, tennis clubâ?¦)7. How will you know youâ??ve found him? (e.g., He proposes to me on a starry night. We are lying together on a sandy beach listening to the waves crashing against the shore. I wake up in the morning to find him making me breakfast in the kitchen. Our eyes meet across a crowded room and he comes over and asks me to danceâ?¦) When you have answered all of these questions, you are ready to let the law of attraction start working for you. You know exactly what you are looking for, where to find it, and how to know when you have found it. So now all you have to do is take a few minutes to think over your responses, and then close your eyes and imagine the man of your dreams. See him, hear him, touch him, feel himâ?¦even taste him! Take time to affirm these positive images daily. Breathe in deeply letting the air fill every cell in your body with the image of what you desire. With every exhalation feel the peace and joy that comes with knowing your desire is already fulfilledâ?¦and it really isâ?¦the universal law of attraction *will* start drawing your dream man (or men!) to you almost immediately. Donâ??t believe me? Give it a try and see the results for yourself. Isnâ??t it time for you to recognize your magnetic potential within andâ??snapâ??start attracting your perfect man now? Ready to learn all the most coveted secrets on how to attract men and how to be irresistible to men? Go to How-To-Attract-Men.com and start attracting your dream man today!coping with problems

With a relationship that is core-attitude incompatible (for instance, a Pollyanna and an Oscar-the-Grouch) the individual that understands the power of the mind is the one that can intentionally create peace and harmony in the relationship.
In other words, the one that is willing to intentionally apply the law of attraction to improve the relationship is the one that will ultimately be the cause of that experience.
Of course, there’s a couple of catches!
When we choose to change or grow our relationship, we must do this by being willing to first, accept the relationship as it is; without exception and without an attachment to the change we desire. I’ll explain why this is true, shortly.
Second, it’s important to remember that there’s always a price and a pay-off to every change. When we choose to intentionally change a relationship, we can ultimately attract our ideal relationship (even from within the one we have) but not without change.
Therefore, be open, willing, and prepared for changes. It may not come in the package or form that we originally planned. Remember, there are two creators involved here and therefore compromise, flexibility and growth will be required on both sides. This is true whether both parties are aware of the intentions of the other or not.
Now, getting back to the first catch, you must apply the law of detachment by accepting that your mate may never change and be willing to be at peace with this exactly as it stands, forever.
Making peace with your reality is the art of detachment. Practicing detachment does not mean you are giving up on your desire for a more harmonious relationship.
Quite the contrary, you are giving up on your desire to have your mate be someone they are not. You keep the desire for harmony and that becomes your magnetic beacon.
By focusing on the essence of harmony and calling that into your experience, you literally inspire those around you to act, be, and do things that are in alignment with that harmony. And, you inspire yourself to not be present when this isn’t the case.
You are, through the intentional act of surrendering to what is, exchanging attachment for detachment, resentment for forgiveness and rejection for love.
Therefore, if you want to inspire changes within your relationship, choose to surrender to loving it just the way it is.
Then, begin to put your focus, attention, and intention on the love, harmony, optimism, fun, adventure, connection, passion, etc. that you want to experience at the core of your being.
By imagining that you experience these things within the relationship every day, you create a wave of magnetic energy that ripples through your home. Your loved ones will literally feel inspired to ride that wave and in a boomerang fashion return the love you are sending out, as if they no longer want to present their ‘negative’ face but instead feel compelled to be more harmonious around you.
Recently, a friend had a major breakthrough with her relationship with her in-laws. It required a great deal of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), creative visualization and a willingness to love them exactly as they are.
She used EFT to eliminate her picture of how they are, including her belief that they were disrespectful and indifferent to her needs and that they were and always would be selfish, self-righteous and overbearing. She then used a great deal of creative visualization to implant into the Infinite Mind what she wanted instead: kind, considerate, respectful, honoring in-laws that she enjoyed and appreciated.
Here’s her miracle email:
“Just wanted to pass along some awesome news!! My husband’s parents returned home from vacation this week and they came to dinner last night at our house. Not only was it really wonderful and comfortable and easy and fun…Guess who washed their hands before holding the baby?!?! Talk about progress! Woo-hoo!” THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!!” – H.
This email is a miracle because only a few short weeks ago, she would have preferred to never see them again, let alone endure an entire dinner!
She used the power of the law of attraction to literally empower the relationship to have the energy of love, respect, and harmony all on its’ own.
Every relationship experience is caused by our thoughts, emotions and our expectations.
Therefore, to change our relationship experience we must change our thoughts and emotions and expectations of the relationship.
We want to choose whether to use emotional scribbling or emotional sparkle to inspire our ideal relationship from within the one we have.
If we are reacting to what is, then we are using emotional scribbling to draw our relationship masterpiece.
If we are intentional, conscious, and focused on love and acceptance, peace and joy, then we are using emotional sparkle to draw our relationship masterpiece.
In summary, here are the steps:
1) Be willing to love and accept your mate exactly as they are even if they never change.
2) Decide what you want in the relationship and focus on the essence of that desire (peace, love, harmony, beauty, joy, passion, etc.)
3) Begin to give what you want in the relationship. If you want more love, start giving more love. If you want more peace, start being more at peace.
4) Use emotional freedom technique (EFT) or some other forgiveness tool to eliminate the doubts, fears, and resentments from your past in order to free yourself from any self-sabotaging thoughts or expectations.
5) Imagine that you already have the very thing that you want right now from your mate. Practice this vision over and over until it becomes a part of your expectation.
When your love of the reality feels truly fulfilling and your expectation for peace, love, and harmony becomes a knowingness (a firm level of absolute certainty) then your physical world will catch up to your emotional world.
This is when you will open your eyes to the change that has taken place and the materialization of your ideal relationship will be what you see! Receive Anisa’s FREE Conscious Creation 101: a 5-part e-course on the basics of Manifesting by visiting http://www.creatavision.com/creative-manifesting.htm. Read more about manifesting and conscious creation by visiting http://www.CreataVision.com and http://www.ManifestingProsperity.com.Smartphone Software

We all have relationships in our lives, whether it is with our significant other, our parents, our siblings, or our friends. While each relationship is unique, each of your relationships has a common thread. That common thread is the Law of Attraction.

Every person that is in your life is a reflection of your thoughts. Pretty amazing, isn’t it? To think that you attracted the crabby postal worker that waited on you yesterday. But you also are responsible for bringing your mate to you as well. So how can we improve upon the relationships that are part of us? By being aware of our thoughts and feelings about ourselves and others.

With the Law of Attraction, feeling good about yourself is the first step in improving your relationships. The rule of the Law of Attraction states that any thing you focus on will come into being, via the Universe, and come knocking on your doorstep. For example: If you focus on a lack of love, the Universe will match your feeling and thought and bring you what you are concentrating on, lack of love through situations and people. If you focus on a loving relationship, then the Universe will match your feelings and thoughts and once again bring you what you are focusing on, a loving relationship.

So why does feeling good about yourself help improve relationships? Because when you have an inner feeling of love (and focus on that), situations and people that have a similar feeling of love will be brought to you. By your accepting who you are, others will accept you for who you are. The relationships that you want to improve will improve if you feel those feelings that you want the others in your life to feel about you. You know that old saying, “Treat others as you would like to be treated.” By having this attitude, every relationship in your life will improve, even if it doesn’t need improving.

This does go for family members as well.

Even though you can’t fathom how you and your brother could ever get along, begin to see how you would like to be treated by him and then start treating him like you would like to be treated. Focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and see your relationship as improving in the manner you would like. When you do this, the Universe picks up on those thoughts and feelings and brings to you exactly what you are focusing on.

So many people say that if they had the perfect relationship, money, career, and health, they would be happy. But it really is the other way around. When you are happy and enjoy every moment of life, then all your desires will come rushing in.

So enjoy the people in your life and treat them like you would want to be treated. When you begin this process some of them may fall by the wayside because they are no longer in alignment with what you want, but others will begin to become kind of the person that you want to have a relationship with. But it must start with you, through the Law of Attraction. Beth and Lee McCain are full time instructors and lecturers in applying the Law of Attraction, or better known as the Secret, in your life to attain whatever you desire. They have a great radio show on Youtube that is both entertaining as well as informative on the subject of the Law of Attraction. For Beth and Lee products and services please visit: Beth and Lee McCain Law of Attraction Web Siteabnehmen mit FitLine XXS

How can you make relationships work better and how can you attract the right people into your life? The answer for you could be that you can use the Law of Attraction to attract more of the people you want into your life and less of the people you do not want.
It is all about vibrations and the way you think about relationships that brings to you what you want. The law of attraction could also be viewed as the law of love. What it means is that like attracts like. The reason many people are experiencing such difficulties in relationships is not because they’re bad persons. They could actually be really nice people, but it is their predominant mental disposition that gets them in trouble.
This may have been true for you in your past. But now you can learn how to attract the right kind of people into your life so that you can have truly lasting and great relationships.
Here are 3 tips of what you can do to get started on the right tract:
1. You need to meditate to get to know yourself. Get to know the secret person inside of you and learn to love yourself! Take a good look in the mirror and find as many things as you can that you like about yourself. Sit down and write out a list. Try to find 100 things you can like about yourself and list them all. Only if you can love yourself you are able to love someone else. Love is the highest vibration in the universe and the Law of Attraction is also called the Law of Love. Great relationships are built on trust and love! On top of that, you can’t expect others to love you if you don’t love yourself. This is not a conceited love, but a healthy love of self.
2. Make a list of what kind of hobbies you like or would like. Then go out and enjoy yourself. If you can’t take a vacation to Hawaii right now, what’s the next best thing that you can do right now? Figure it out and then go out and do it. Life is about passion, enjoyment and love.
3. If you’re currently in a relationship, sit down and find 100 things you like about your current partner or spouse. We tend to see faults and flaws so easily, but how many good things can you find and appreciate about the person you’re with now? And as you do this on a regular basis, you will start to find that this person seems a lot more loving, a lot easier to get along with, and you’ll begin to manifest more of the law of attraction. If you’re single and looking for a mate, then sit down and write out your idea of the perfect mate. Don’t be afraid to do this, even if you think that you’ll never attract such a person, just write it out and find your ground. The results that you are getting may surprise you. This will help you to be more focused on what kind of person you want to attract into your life. It will help you to make better choices when it comes to relationships and it will help to attract the person that you want into your life with the Law of Attraction.
4. After you have done this get into the feeling of having a wonderful relationship. Then, go out and do something. Join a bowling league, volunteer at a charitable organization, join a walk-a-thon, visit your local bookstore, get involved where there are people with the same interests as you. Your vibrations are depending on your feelings, whatever feelings you have you will vibrate and the Law of Attraction will bring the right match back to you. You will attract what you are vibrating.
Relationships that do not work can be in your past. The Law of Attraction is a powerful force in every person’s life on this earth. Most people are not aware of this and maybe you did not know about the Law of Attraction until just recently.
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To leverage the power of Emotional Freedom Technique and the Universal Laws of Creation, it is essential to know and to understand the basic principles that govern our Universe.
The Universal Laws govern all of life without exception; from the glaciers to earthquakes, from spinning tops and spinning planets to newborns and world leaders, from elephants and arachnids to amoebas, to orchids, oranges and microorganisms.
Metaphysics is the term used to study that which is beyond the physical, beyond what we can touch, see, taste and feel. The Universal Laws are the non-physical principles that govern our Universe in an unfailing, impartial, consistent and dependable fashion.
As we study the laws that govern our Universe, we see certain empirical Truths. It is through the study of these Universal Principles and Truths that we master our creative abilities.
With study, we begin to comprehend the profound implications of each law; we become more and more conscious of the power of our intentionality and of our minds; more and more conscious of the unwavering influence of our thoughts, emotions and beliefs on our experience.
As we begin to work with these Universal Truths (studying, applying, practicing, and redirecting), we learn how it is that we live either in harmony or disharmony with our dreams and goals.
By choosing to become acutely aware of our harmonious or disharmonious actions and thoughts, we experience and observe first hand the Universal Laws playing out in our lives. We experience both the ‘negative’ and the ‘positive’.
Ultimately, we want to use this awareness to intentionally guide and direct our experience, focusing on the ‘ascending’ or ‘positive’ thoughts to attract the highest and best that life has to offer.
Now, with the support of Emotional Freedom Technique we can quickly and systematically neutralize the thoughts that oppose our goals and cause the postponement of our life’s dreams.
This means that with EFT we can more easily and naturally apply the Laws of the Universe!
When we become aware of our limiting beliefs we can use this awareness to realign our energy; to align our thoughts and beliefs with the Universal Laws.
Many a metaphysical student can attest to their personal ‘vibrational thesis’ (their theory behind which ball of thoughts, feelings and beliefs actually created their experience.)
As we continue, we become more and more adept at specifically recalling and tracing back the thoughts, emotions, and beliefs that literally foretold our experience.
It’s very important to understand that when we review our past experience it is not to repudiate or cause anxiety about our creative abilities, failings, or ‘mistakes’ but to discern which habitual or “beliefs by rote” may be causing us to attract an experience less than Heaven on Earth.
By assessing how and where our beliefs are either supporting or repelling our dreams, we can then intentionally alter our beliefs and thought patterns (with tools such as meditation, silence, prayer and EFT) to navigate towards our optimal future with greater effortlessness, ease and speed.
The Universal Laws of Creation:
The Universal Laws cannot be segmented or independently applied, they work consistently and inter-dependently of one another at all times.
Therefore, to ‘apply the law of attraction’ intentionally, one must also learn to apply the ‘law of detachment’, for example.
To summarize, the laws:
The Law of Attraction (aka the Law of Creation) says that whatever you put your attention upon expands.
We draw into our lives whatever we focus upon and emotionalize – be it positive or negative. The more we focus, the more attractive and stronger our vibration becomes, and the more quickly it manifests. To practice the Law of Attraction, simply put your attention and your positive emotions upon the essence of your dreams fulfilled, as if you already have them now!
The Law of Detachment (aka the Law of Allowing) says that in order to intentionally attract something, we must relinquish our attachment to it.
If we are attached, then we project negative emotions of fear, doubt, or craving, for example, which actually repels our dreams. To practice the Law of Detachment, be willing to trust in the Divine Order and Divine Timing. Choose to elevate your consciousness to a place of peaceful expectancy, a place of allowing; where you feel absolutely certain that all is well, right now.
The Law of Unlimited Potential (aka the Law of Pure Potentiality) says that we are unlimited children of a very prosperous, powerful, omnipotent, impartial, all-providing, all-sufficient, all-loving Father/Mother/God. Our Divine Inheritance is all that we desire: wealth, joy, love, peace, abundance, health, beauty, wisdom, wholeness, and harmony.
Practicing the Law of Unlimited Potential requires that we accept our divinity and realize that the Presence of the Divine is within. We do not have to earn the right to our dreams; we were born deserving of all that we desire.
When we accept our unlimited nature, we know that the Source is internal, not external. By expanding our consciousness of this Truth, that the Presence of God is within, we exalt our positive vibrational offering in an organic, all- encompassing and symbiotic manner.
The Law of Reciprocity (aka the Law of Giving) says that as you give you shall receive.
There is a failsafe method of getting everything you want; simply begin giving more of what you want away. To practice the law of reciprocity, begin taking action daily (giving of yourself towards your dreams) and begin tithing of your time, talent, and treasure to wherever you feel spiritually fed. If you aren’t sure where you feel spiritual nourishment, just start giving ‘it’ away everywhere you go. If you aren’t sure where or how to take action, just start
taking action is some way (any way) and you will be led. Give freely and with an open and unattached heart. Think of the Law of Reciprocity as priming the pump, the pump of your never-ending, all-providing well of prosperity, love, and success. Taking inspired action is the act of priming the pump and to receive we must be willing to give, both through action and generosity.
The Law of Cause and Effect: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
There is nothing in our Universe that exists independently. In other words, everything was created by something else and every new creation causes a reaction to the existing reality.
Thus, we cannot intentionally attract a new job, without causing the old job to change or cease to exist. We cannot intentionally attract a better relationship, without causing the current relationship (or situation) to change or cease to exist.
In studying this law, we become truly aware that the Universe is not random. There is no such thing as mere coincidence and in order to grow, change, and intentionally attract what we really want, we must be willing to go through the effects of change. When we immerse ourselves in the study and application of the laws of the Universe, we will notice certain ‘thoughts’ and ‘feelings’ that prevent us from mastering them.
For example, let’s say we want to attract a mate using the law of attraction. If we practice the law of attraction, we will actually visualize ourselves fully embracing, loving, adoring and being loved and adored by our ideal life partner.
Then, we would practice detachment by sending forth love and gratitude for already having them in our lives. We would then maintain our vision and our faith for as long as possible. Here’s where most of us go astray!
At some point, we may find ourselves looking around, wondering where our perfect man/woman is; sighing at night when they aren’t laying down with us, or anxious at a dinner where everyone else is ‘coupled’, for example. We may find ourselves longing (not allowing but craving) a mate.
When we observe our attention going to ‘he/she isn’t here yet’; and this attention triggers negative emotions such as fear, sadness, worry, anxiety, or disappointment then we are attached and not practicing the law of detachment or the law of unlimited potential.
NOW, as conscious creation students, we have the opportunity to USE this awareness to pivot our attention and our vibration; we have the opportunity to eliminate the limiting beliefs that prevent us from practicing the Law of Pure Potentiality (that we are unlimited and therefore would of course have nothing to fear or worry about) and practice the Law of Detachment (that we trust in the Divine Order and know that all is well now).
With EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) we can get in there, dig out those limiting beliefs of ‘he/she isn’t here yet’ and neutralize them. Negative thoughts and emotions are poisonous acid to our dreams, hopes, and ambitions. Think of EFT as the antidote to the poison. EFT pours an energetic alkaline solution on the acid that’s repelling our dreams. When we use EFT, we are alkalizing the poisonous thoughts and returning to a space of courage and neutrality.
When we obtain a consciousness of neutrality, we can then intentionally raise our positive emotions – our level of certainty and purely and intentionally attract outstanding success!
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